Long Lost Family Mediation
Introduction
Family is a fundamental social institution that is the foundation of any healthy society. However, sometimes, family members get separated due to various reasons such as divorce, migration, or adoption. The separation leaves a gap in the family, which can lead to emotional, psychological, and financial distress. Long lost family members often experience feelings of loneliness, low self-esteem, and depression. In the UK, many families have been separated for years, and the reconnection process can be challenging. However, mediation can help in reconnecting long lost family members in a peaceful, respectful, and efficient manner. This blog explores how mediation can help in reuniting long lost families in the UK.
Statistics and UK Facts on Long Lost Family
Long lost family is a common phenomenon in the UK. According to the UK government, around 120,000 children are adopted in the UK every year, and many of them lose contact with their biological families. Similarly, many adults lose contact with their parents, siblings, or other relatives due to migration, divorce, or estrangement. According to a survey conducted by the charity organization, Relate, in 2012, one in five adults in the UK has lost contact with a close family member. In addition, the survey found that 45% of adults in the UK have lost touch with a parent, sibling, or child. The study suggests that the problem of long lost family members is prevalent in the UK, and there is a need for effective solutions to address it.
How Mediation Can Help in Reuniting Long Lost Family Members
Mediation is a conflict resolution process that involves the help of a neutral third party to facilitate communication and negotiation between the parties. Mediation is a voluntary process, and the mediator does not make any decisions but helps the parties reach their own solutions. Mediation can be an effective tool in reuniting long lost family members for the following reasons:
1. Mediation is a peaceful and respectful process
The separation of family members can be emotionally charged, and the parties may have deep-seated feelings of anger, resentment, or fear. In such cases, communication can be difficult, and the parties may find it hard to express themselves without getting into conflict. Mediation provides a safe and non-judgmental space for the parties to communicate and express their feelings. The mediator helps the parties listen to each other and understand their perspectives. This process promotes mutual respect and empathy, which is essential in reuniting long lost family members.
2. Mediation is an efficient process
The reconnection process can be time-consuming and expensive, especially if the parties decide to go to court. Mediation, on the other hand, is a cost-effective and time-efficient process. The parties can agree on the terms of the reconnection process within a few sessions, and the process can be completed within weeks or months. This efficiency is crucial in reuniting long lost family members because it reduces the time and resources required
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